And H's dad never got it. He left his second wife with two kids for his mistress too. Maybe he'll get it on his deathbed but I doubt it.
We never know what people think inside their own heads. H's dad may never reveal whether he gets it or not. I think it's a lot harder for second gen (H) to run from the truth. Not saying he can't or won't, I just think it's a lot harder...IMHO ;-)
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09