my mother "borrowed" a ring from my W, lied about not knowing anything about it, then lieing again when we discovered my mom had given the ring to one of my sisters with the instruction not to tell anyone about it until my sister's D (who my mom said the ring was for) was 18 (my neice was about 2 at the time). The hardest discussion I had was to bring it up to my mother, hear her lie to me, then try to lay a guilt trip on me. There were others episodes where my mom was mean in a passive-aggressive sort or way, to my W.
WOW!!
Just wondering, was this a family heirloom ring, or something else where your Mom thought she should have some control over it?
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
