Well she called around 6:48 that she is on her way. She got here 10 minutes after.
M: "Hello?"
w:"I'm outside."
M"Ok I'll be right out."
I grabbed the diapers from my office and heading towards her vehicle. I said "hey." She then opened the door and and I said I almost forgot her suit case. So I grabbed that from my vehicle and put it in her car. The whole time she was having a smoke outside the car. So I lite one up too.(Yes we both smoke and I know we both need to quit.)
w: When is S leaving?
m: Either the 5th or 6th of Oct.
w: Well if he is leaving so soon then I want to take him for the next two weeks also. When is he coming back?
M: I think Thanksgiving. Or I will try to get him back before his birthday.(Nov 14)
W: No its fine. What about D? So I'm going to have her the whole time?
M: What are you suggesting?
w: What if you get her on the weekends?
M: I'm going to have to find a way to work it out. I work saturdays so its going to be tough.
W: Well it only seems fair if you take her on the weekends.
M: I know but I have to figure something out with work.
w: Ok well I'm going to go.
I then proceed to go to where my little fatty was sleeping in her car seat. (She is so chunky! lol 26 lbs and only 9 months) I gave her a kiss on the head and cheek. I then said "bye" to the w. In the most nicest way I could. and just walked back in the store. Man it was tough. Its tough right now. I was so tempted to begg and plead and make a point. I stopped myself. I wished they were back in my arms and I feel like she is drifting farther away.
On a side note I did notice her stress. When she doesn't have the kids man is she all dolled up. Even for work. Today she looked like she has when we were still living together. Hair tied up and just stressed.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09