I'm with you swimming. I don't know how to have a backbone. I'm here trying to salvage my marriage - or build a new one as stronger says - and I'm getting screamed at and blamed left and right. We need to support each other on the back bone thing!
Ack! How do we do it?
Hope..thank you for your help and advice..we do need to support each other! Maybe if I had a buddy to do it with I could be stronger..You know..I just got done reading robx's replies..WOW! Read some of his stuff and you will rethink what you will and will not put up with..talking about feeling EMPOWERED..not that Stronger does not empower me because she 100% does as does everyone else that has followed my thread! Def. read robx's stuff though..it really puts things in perspective..one being a thread about putting spouse on a pedastal..this is something I have done for 10 years! 10 years!!! Instead of seeing my H for what he really is. Hang in there and let me know how it is going! We should not have to put up with this! We are just as good as they are!!!!!
