So, I'm Dbing more-kind of let it slide when h came home and started MC with me-focused on traditional therapy... One thing that puzzles me-that I don't recall people talking about- is that my H is bored alot. I don't know if its his depression, lack of passion for life...but he gets bored very easily and then I feel that I need to keep him busy(to keep him out of trouble?)...Anyone else have a MLC spouse with the same issue? just curious...not sure how to deal with it better. H realizes he needs to fill his life up(then of course my vulnerability rears its head that he'll fill it up with 'another' OW)...still some big insecurity there for me...
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.