I know I am not an idiot however I do rethink my decision when I start getting it from all sides...
It is the enemy, the devil, trying very hard to get you to weaken and give up.
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Of course it would be much easier to just give up and move forward without him however that isn't how I feel so it isn't going to happen...
Of course it would be easier, but I didn't hear anything about easier in my vows.
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I did talk to H for a few minutes on Saturday and then again that night...He called the little one to talk to him and the minute our son got on the phone, he just started crying and asking his Dad when he would be home (His response was soon)and that he missed him and loved him...
A month ago I would have pacified H once I got back on the phone, I would have made excuses for the little ones' tears (over tired, hungry etc...)...That night I said nothing about it...I want him to think about the damage he is causing...All he said was he wasn't expecting that kind of reaction...I said I had to go and have a good night...
No need to pacify. You do not need to rescue him and your son's feelings are very valid.
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Had a good weekend, the sermon at Church yesterday - Letting Go/Letting God...Couldn't have come at a better time
(((Hugs))) to all!
It always works that way. Whether I open the bible or go to church, it always exactly what I need at that exact moment.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
