Tired of the game

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Julia,
I am reading along.. you know I think about you, despite how bad my bf's R was with OW, short(ish), how much contact we had the whole 18 months, all the 'dates' we went on and the universal opinion of his friends that ow was a nightmare and I was the loev of his life, that he was SO clearly depressed and desperate and unhappy and literally tearing his hair out when we were apart and NOW is so happy and contented.. despite all this good stuff, I still struggle gently, day to day with the reconciliation and forgeting his R with her and putting it all behind us now. And it makes me wonder.. after a 2 year R, living together, fancy holidays etc.. could you really be ok about it and be able to rebuild with him? What do you think?

Hugs, Al xxx