Partner left after 9 yrs - 18months on, reunited !

[AliSuddenly]

Hey girls! Ahh.. you know, we're really ok though, I am so lucky and I am sure others can make it if I can! We are like a picture of domestic bliss.. if I really posted it all, it would make for sickening reading on a forum like this !! For example, he just called me sweetie poppet schnookey honey lumps... or something equally ridiculous.. its like he cant get enough terms of endearment into one sentence (its sort of a sweet jokey thing though too!). You are right K, he always was a sensitive kind man, but he's amazing me with how loving and tender he is being. I still feel tripped out, like I'm dreaming it...

I do struggle a bit with the thought of him being with another woman (like yesterday he admitted they went away for a weekend to meet her friends, but he didnt connect with any of them and has no desire to see people from that period again).. which is great!.. but my head gets stuck on.. they went away for a weekend...I guess its just time?? I do reassure him that I look back and view events in the CONTEXT of him being depressed (and not some b*stard or something).

T - I did suggest to him we can just be intimate or loving, doesnt have to be the big ML. He agreed and seemed keen on trying massage! and says its just a phase thuogh and then it will all be back to normal. The annoying thing is, he has NO performance issues and nothing to worry about! Must be a mental thing, maybe its the guilt??

I booked MC sessions, very rebutable UK place, I got it free through work even (which is great as its normally £60 a time) but he said he didnt want to go and asked me not to push it on us, so I droppped it.

K - yes we are still coming, by the weekend 19th if thats ok.. is it still hot there!!??