I've been searching the forums for an answer to this question and haven't found it yet, so I'll ask...
How does one handle friends who tell you that you should be done with WAS and say "good riddance?" My best friend, whom I love dearly, thinks I'm crazy for wanting to work on my M. She's been divorced 3 times and I've never asked her for M advice, but of course, she offers anyway. Once she feels betrayed or hurt by someone, they don't get another chance and she feels like I should be the same way. I don't want to damage my friendship, but I'd like to tell her in just this instance, to butt out. No matter how it goes, I definitely need to keep her as a friend. There's no one better to have in your corner and she's probably the best one to help me GAL. Right now, I'm going with "I'm all talked out about the sitch. I just need distraction." Any other suggestions?