We've all (or most of us) on these boards been there, in some way or another. It's tough, and its only going to get tougher. As it says in the DR book, those of use who want to save the marriage are going to have to do most of the hard work/heavy lifting for the next while.
Read as much as you can. Read DB and DR several times, read lots of posts. Hang in there.
Oh - and paragraphs are your friend and ours. It will make it easier to read for the rest of us.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053
