Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

So, last evening, last night, and this morning were not good! My H made some comments to me about me not being there for my sons in the future. That enraged me! I went to work this morning just asking God to have someone to tell me what to do.

I decided to call my Dr. and see when I could come in. Lo and behold, they had an opening at 11:30 am, so I called my boss and left.

I had been to see my Dr. about these same issues close to 3 years ago and she put me on anti-anxiety and depression medication at the time. I stayed on them a little over a year. Today, she sat me down and asked me how things were going. I burst out crying and she said to me after listening that you either make the choice to stay and live like this or get an atty. and file for a formal separation. She told me to absolutely not leave my job.

She knows my husband, treated him for a while. She never said anything about him other than that he won't leave, he will just keep chipping away at the essence of me as long as I allow him to.

Now, my question for those of you out there~ do I stay and DB or do I contact a lawyer to file? Not really asking for THE answer, just your thoughts and some of your experiences. I want to do what is ultimately best for me and my boys.