Hang tough, Sam. Remember that you are being accommodating, and it's in W's best interest to play along.
I'm probably warning you about stuff you know full well about, and probably being cynical, but remember, you know who you are - don't play off for W.
Just be who you are - if I've learned nothing else, I've learned that I won't become a complete person by being with someone else, even my W. They will get a complete "me".
I have seen those that come on her all distraught over losing their spouse, and wondering how they can ever keep them. Then, they mysteriously become self-confident and strong, and you find out they hooked up with someone. Ever wonder why second marriages fail more than 78% of the time? It's because the second marriage is a crutch to escape the pain of the first!
OK, sorry to rant - glad to hear you're doing well!
