There are 3 reasons why I want her back in any particular order. Here they are.
1) I don't want my kids having to finish growing up in a broken home. That isn't fair to them. Plus, D continues to set a precedence in the family if this happens and can very well affect their own future M's.
2) I don't want my W living in adultery which is what she will be doing if she decides to remarry another man. I don't want her to have to face judgement for that. I worry about her.
3) I do love her and care about her and I do miss her. Our family is very important and special. It just needs to be recessitated in whatever God's timing is.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...