Wow. Kinda puts the Buckeye loss in perspective, doesn't it.
I'm so happy for you guys, H4U. That's huge. Although my wife and I are getting along better than at any time in the past two years, and even been ML lately, she still hasn't put hers back on. She says "I don't want to get people's hopes up," meaning mainly her parents and our kids.
Puppy
Thanks Pup. I kind of agree with what WDID said. And I think that was part of what was holding my W back from wearing her's. Didn't want to do that unless she was sure.
And I know this is somewhat different from your sitch, but I've thought recently about you and your W and how lately it sounds like you guys are like my aunt and uncle (at least lately). They were married for quite a few years and divorced because they didn't get along. They lived apart for a while and then got back together, remarried and couldn't stand each other. Got divorced again. Few years later, got back together and have lived together since without remarrying. And they're completely happy.
It's almost like because they're not married and are together by choice, that they treat each other better. Now I know you and your W just separated, but do you think there's something with your W being "free" that allows her to be more "with" you?
And yeah, Bucks losing just didn't have the same sting as it normally has.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.