The biggest thing our men want to see is us be happy with ourselves and look like we are taking care of our bodies. If we are complaining about how our legs look big, but then we never do anything about it, and keep eating the same, they are going to be frustrated.
Just wanted to say AMEN to that!! I don't think there's anything more effective to slowly killing the attraction than to be told what's so unattractive about your W... BY YOUR W!! First of all, if you're happy with the way you look, it shows!! If you're not, you do something about it. It's all about confidence. This probably sounds like oversimplistic guy talk, but it's what I have done myself.
MF, lose the weight if that's what you need to do to get your confidence back and be happy with yourself. THAT's what will bring attraction back. Don't do it just for the weight, that's just a number.
