It really is sad that your H is motivated soley by money and not love of his children.
hugs, kat
Ok, I think he does love them, but maybe 80/20 or 70/30 with money being the larger motivation of course....I've thought to myself, if it doesn't work out for him with the $$ at final hearing, OW may drop him. I can't imagine her staying with a broke guy for long. Her H was making less money (went from a good paying job to making less when he opened his own practice) and I have to wonder if that made her H seem less attractive....b/c that's when she started the A with my H.
So the social worker just called me from the school and was saying the same thing about the adjustment period from going to home to school and you have to plan ahead and that. So hopefully something that will get worked out.
NC, I don't think he makes fathers look bad. More human beings. I think your W is kind of the same, motivated by stuff other than the kids being their primary motivation; she doesn't make moms look bad--just herself!!!
Ok, maybe did a good thing or bad thing yesterday. Not sure. The theatre director asked me to work on the crew for the Peter Pan play they're doing the next 3 or so weeks. I said yes, and that's about 30 hours a week, including rehearsals and performances. I was thinking it's good b/c I'll get my mind off the coming D, and be fun and all. I asked about D9 helping and they said she can't b/c of stuff being really heavy (although hopefully I won't have to move that stuff either!). But I'm going to try to talk to my friend, who's the asst. stage manager and see if she can help in wardrobe or something.
