Not sure yet, but it sure seems like it. She's sending me invites to go do things with all of us as a family (bbq thing this saturday). She is initiating lots of conversation and seems to want to keep it going. She plans things for us as a family for the future (several months out).
Last night, a funny thing. We do a dinner club through our church. You sign up for it in 6 month cycles. We have done this dinner club the last year and a half. I was checking the calendar last night and saw we had the kickoff dinner for the dinner club this Sunday. I asked her if she had this on her calendar. She sdaid No, I did not sign us up for that this term. Then she quickly added "Because I knew we would be busy with S's football and baseball season in the fall." And I could hear in her voice her concern that I would get the wrong impression by her not signing us up for the dinner club. She sounded worried.
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How do you do it when you do have the desire to pursue?
That's the beauty of detachment. You WANT them to pursue you, but you don't NEED it. So, you can comfortably sit back and let them come to you on their timetable.
