Yes, folks, true. I haven't gotten too much into my changes but I did feel the need to say that I hope he sees them. I didn't itemizes them but my fear is that even though I am changing H doesn't trust it or want to see it. He justifies them away. Meanwhile, he's having legal papers written up and I'm losing time.
How can I make sure he trusts what changes he sees? He says he really doesn't trust himself - because he felt like he "believed me before when I said I'd change" and ultimately things did not change. He feels stupid for trusting me so the issue is he doesn't even want to trust what's in front of his face for fear of "being duped again".
