Yeah a cooling off period is kind of like a gun waiting period for divorces. Basically it says you have to serve papers and then wait a fixed period before you can get the divorce. You can find out pretty easily if your state has one through a google search. If your h. follows my w.'s pattern he will calm down and slow down at some point. In the early days she was so desperate to keep the momentum going she put all sorts of pressure on me. The hard part, and beleive me I know how hard this is, is to find a way to not allow the pressure and tantrums to disturb you. Stay strong and know that there are better days ahead.
