In late May my wife had a death in her family and she has been under a lot of stress.By July she started saying terrible things to me,but it would be ok.She is showing a lot of signs of a midlife crisis.we are currently seperated she is seeing a counselor that has a hunch at somepoint this would have happened regardless of who she married.we have been together 18 yrs and she is 37 yrs old,late july she said she did love me,i didn't realize i was pushing and it spiraled down hill too quick.we have been seperated for 2 months and our relationship has not gotten anybetter.I am following the last resort techniques.Is there a difference between a female or males midlife crisis?can someone tell me what to expect and chances of putting this back together?I really need help,a teenage daughter and a 11 yr old son need a family and i love my wife.