Looking for input here, I am starting to get ticked. Just got this email from H: "I know you were busy last week with work but I really need you to think about the separation agreement. I know this isn't what you want and you're probably dragging your feet because of that but you need to know that this is what I want. I would like to do this as amicably as possible and with as little lawyer involvement as possible, so please put some thought into what I said."
Little does he know I've done nothing BUT think about this. I am thinking of firing off this reply:
"I understand you are in a hurry but I wonder why you assume I am not thinking about this? I have been interviewing L's, and giving thought to huge life decisions in the last 2 weeks. I have to say I am really suspicious about your "need" to rush this. You have had 5 mos. to decide, now I get a week?"
or something like that. I know this is not DBing, but I really feel like letting him have it. I'm sure sending it while I'm ticked is not a real good idea. Like Rabbit said, a spade to H's head is looking like a real good idea right now!
Karen if you are around, I know you said to let Ls negotiate. I am willing to discuss but not before I hire a L. I am deciding between 2, should I give him the courtesy of this info or just keep reply blunt? I refuse to let him rush me. What do the experts think is a good reply here? Thanks so much for any insight.
