Ali... I really think when you get back from greece you should think about going to therapy together. Your resentment, his sexual issues--those are things that you need to deal with. Not insurmountable, but sweeping them under the rug isn't going to work as a lifelong coping mechanism.
I'm not sure you guys are into this, and/or maybe this is TMI for the boards, but could he give you oral or something, so you could feel loved without it being about his sexual performance fears? I'm not sure how to bring that up without pressuring him for something that maybe he's not into, but maybe it would be worth exploring other options in terms of connecting intimately, youknowwhatim'saying??
