You are absolutely right. The problem was pretty simple: I really needed to ask him. So with his answer as officially I don't know, I'll have to wait and see if he removes it. Otherwise, I'm prepared to answer. I really also wanted to remind him, or even educate him that removing the filing is an option. I do think he knew that before I said it though.
So yes, no more discussions about it. He has flat out told me, he wants less drama, and I agree. He is also watching and waiting to see when the "other shoe drops." So far, he hasn't really seen that. There have been some fights yes, but when he expected them, no. I do believe he's noticed that too.
So, continuing on the path and actually doing pretty damn well.
