My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

I know exactly what I want...mostly outlined above. 50/50 custody and state mandated child support to account for income inequality. I will probably have little choice but to continue subsidizing until the house is sold. W has clearly stated that she does not agree to 50/50 custody so there may well be a battle.

What I haven't defined is timing. How long do I go on in current sitch, etc. Once we move into the financial and custody discussions I expect things to degrade rapidly. I hope I'm wrong but I'm not counting on it. Either way, I don't want to go there but living in denial without planning is not an option. I will really feel like a bad guy if/when I have to move in the D direction.