That's what I have been thinking too. It's nice to see that I'm not all alone in that thinking.

I'm definitely changing. Detaching too. Up and down.

I'm just so damn lonely. This is the first day in weeks if not months that I have had such a strong urge to call her. (I won't)

It was just a few days ago, I thought I was ready to tell her that I didn't want her back if she indeed does move out.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.