I guess what I am trying to say is that even though you guys say that it is possible to have a 3 year relationship and come out saying he or she means nothing to me "now", it seems unlikely to me.
Yeh me too John, highly inlikely. Maria, I would say nothing until you sign, ask yourself what good will it do. Unlike John I am not sure I understand the vindication argument, so we say for arguments sake, he never loved her ..like he loved you...it was all a big mistake... whatever, thats makes you what? happy, or feeling even more so that it was such a waste, or like a second prize cos he got found out? when children are involved that puts a whole different perspective on his affair and leaving,she obviously mattered enough then. Take care I still read now and again.
