How do you wait this out?

[Lost Rabbit]

Totally understand where you are coming from, my H is still paying for our house, the one he walked away from! The other week after I told him I couldnt meet him he arranged a lunch date with S(21) so he could come to the house and meet him. Wasnt impressed one jot, I dont even know H's address just the area he is living in. Think my answer would be "thanks for offering to pick the mail up, but if you give me a forwarding address I will see it gets sent on to you" end of discussion. As Nell is fond of saying short blunt and nothing else! Unfortunately for me H used live here so still has a key!