Robx - I always appreciate your blunt comments. Seriously.
I think we are just going to have to agree to disagree on the futon/bed thing. I really think it's a matter of respect for my wife and that has been an issue in the past - her feeling disprespected by me.
Those 3 nice things she did for me. I think I did not appreciate them enough. And you are right. You don't do that for someone you hate. So...she may have said that a couple days ago and maybe even felt it then, but not over the weekend.
Gotta admit - can't name 3 nice things I did for her this weekend.
As for how I am today - I am still working on the urgency thing. I do have a better sense of overall calm. I am learning to take one day at a time (I am a planner!!) and appreciate the small things.
