Originally Posted By: givingitmyall

First, the person you think is your W is NOT. So, she is not HER.


Can you elaborate? The person that I think she is not really who she is or the person she is right now is not really who she is? (kind of confusing)

I have been worried lately...what if this is the REAL her? That's what she keeps saying. She has been telling me that she's been an uncaring, outgoing, wild party girl all along, but has just hidden it (for over 12 years).

I know what you mean about the reading for pleasure. All I have right now are basically "self-help" books. The Bible too. I have been reading a lot more of that than I ever had before.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.