So, today h e-mails wanting to come to the house to get some files and his mail. I think he hasn't forwarded his mail because I refused to put the bills in MY name, so they would then go to his house and, of course, I wouldn't make any effort to come get them... He wants to come on Thursday at 2 pm when I would not be home; he wants my mom to let him in.
My thoughts are that this is totally unacceptable, manipulative, and disrespectful. He doesn't want me to step near HIS place, but he feels totally fine asking to come over to MY place whenever he wants. He has said this is because he is still paying for it. I think he's just nuts....
Advice, please...before I respond?
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10