Do you have a financial agreement that you would settle for in the case of D? Just curious.
Definitively NO. Original agreement was crafted when I wanted out. It preserves the family in our house with me subsidizing way over what state would order me to pay in a situation where W has custody. If D is the route we go I would not be willing to settle for anything less than 50% custody. I am blessed with a respectable income but W's is not bad either. 50/50 custody would leave her with little subsidy and cause her to move. Actually, if she maintained custody and I paid state ordered child support she would still have to move. She has maintained that she doesn't wish to stay in house anyway. I would envision a scenario where I end up subsidizing until house is sold which may take some time. Also, mortgage is very close to being underwater so there may be a small loss.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
