Has her Dr. mentioned anything about schizophrenia?
She told the Dr about the illusions and he never mentioned schizophrenia. He made a differentiation because she knew they were not real. The way she described these things to me is that they would come out of patterns in the grain of wood or tiled floors, etc.
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
There were times that I thought I was as well (in the beginning of this mess)...I literally thought I was losing my mind...
She has often told me that she thought she "was going crazy"
Thank you Serenity.
Yes she thinks she's going crazy, could it be she is just having a hard time trying to understand why she feels attracted to another man so much that she wants to leave her loving husband to have a relationship with this OM?
Your wife is in her early to mid 30's, she's experiencing an increased production of testosterone in her body (and a decrease in the amount of estrogen), while at the same time you are experiencing a decrease in testosterone and an actual increase in estrogen, she is looking for some "strange" for lack of a better description and yes it's not something she understands, although she can have sex with her husband, she wants something new, different, exciting with another man... I wonder why.
She used to be the parent that worried about every little thing that may impact her children and now she is making choices that she knows will impact her kids but still chooses to do so for her own interests while at the same time, your interests in taking care of your family & children have increased where it becomes a major focus in your life and you think about it daily. She is becoming cold, distant, and decreasing her communication to you all at the same time you want to increase these things. Sexual polarity seems to be an issue in this relationship.
There is a science to this Tristan, I keep mentioning this, you need to start doing some research on this, knowledge is power.
