H pissed me off on Friday. I let him know. I was ready to sign off and say enough. He came home the same night, was incredibly attentive. Next morning, he was grumpy. I gave it the attention it deserved, enough to let him know I do care about his feelings, but completely expect and demand he care about mine. We settled it all.
Sunday morning, we were talking about some things. He let me know that OW texted him on Friday, or I should say confirmed she texted him to check in and ask about a friend of ours who was singing in a contest. (She did very very well, so proud of her.) I told him, "It's a relationship with me and only me. I'm done with this person 100%." He agreed. We'll see. He said ex-OW gave him crap for being at the Friday event with me and S and some good friends of ours. He said "How dare you? Where do you get off? Oh and eff you. Just like I told Stronger, no one is going to tell me what to do or influence me."
Now, he didn't let me see the text, but he read it to me. So, again....we'll see.
Also this morning, I can't remember what he said, but my response was simply "You filed. You actually filed for divorce. How do you want me to take that? It's not really a compliment. And more importantly, how do you want me to respond?" I was very calm and matter of fact. He said "I don't know." I said "Well, I have to respond soon here......are you going to withdraw the filing?" He was quiet for a long time and he said finally "I don't know."
But aside from all the drama, it was actually a really great weekend and that conversation this morning was very productive. We spent most of the day together and it was nice and relaxed.
Again, more hurry up and wait.
The ball really is in my court as to how I'm going to respond, but now, he does have the ability to take the ball back and remove the filing.
We'll see.
It's funny. I'm dating my husband who has filed for divorce. WTF?
