Yes, I had a great birthday and a fabulous trip. I have these little mini-battles when I wake up sad, "damn, I'm supposed to be over this by now" and then I accept the feelings and move on.
He did call about 4 times, texted, emailed and posted on my FB page on my birthday but then when we finally spoke (sooner or later I have to let the kids talk to him)...his tone was so distant...
I feel resentful that he is so insulated from the consequences of his actions, that he is so like a kid in that as long as he is stimulated, he is relatively ok. In the mean time, I am navigating my life with the kids and just trying to let the train wreck happen in my peripheral vision. I am shocked that a) this is lasting so long without his bubble bursting and b) our mutual friends aren't telling him that he is acting like a douche-bag, especially posting it all over FB (granted I don't know that they aren't telling him but he is shameless).
Anyway, I have a boatload of things to deal with this week so I better focus.
