You forgot the option of backing off and giving her time and space while still being amicable and friendly in addition to making a reasonable agreement as far as finances and logistics go.
I thought that was #2
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
