All kidding aside....I was just wondering out loud what the pertinence of the "nothing to him now" issue. I got a sense of the vindication argument (happilly ever after). I realize that it does not mean that you want him back or he wants back.
I guess what I am trying to say is that even though you guys say that it is possible to have a 3 year relationship and come out saying he or she means nothing to me "now", it seems unlikely to me.