Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[Hope4us]

Ok Stuck, Thanks for stopping by my piecing thread. I just got caught up on your sitch.

Your W had an A with her boss....does she still work for him? If she doesn't work directly for him, does she still see him at work on a regular basis?

How long ago did the A end? Are you sure it's over?

If your W still works for or with OM you're not dealing with a MLC. You're dealing with someone who's emotions are constantly being F'd with because those "love chemicals" are constantly being stimulated by thoughts of OM. It will take a LONG time for her to invest in the marriage, that is if she ever does, as long as they're still working together. Heck, it took my W over a year to come out of the fog of her A and that was even with OM 250 miles away and what she says was no contact.

I have more ideas when you answer those questions.

H4U