Last night was kind of wired. She had called around 6:41pm last night asking about my little girl's rash cream. Then she kept trying to talk a bit more and asked to talk with my son. He was playing with his toys and was not interested.

Then she started to text me:

w:she can stand on her own a little now...plus she feels confident to let ur hands go so she can stand. Just letting you know.

M:Ahhh! Fantastic! I have been walking her around my apt for some time now to build her strength. That's great to hear. I wished we were there to see it.

(She has never texted me or called me about the kids when she had them on her week. I would let her know what she missed out though on my week. Like her first crawl, and her first time chasing me around my kitchen in her walker. My wife when she did come pick them up would try to repeat the event I told her at my place.)

text again later on:
w: Can u help buy diapers cuz I don't have ne money till friday

M:sorry just got back from the laundromat from down stairs. Stop by after work tomorrow at my work place. I work 12-9.

w: k


I did kind of back tracked a bit I think. I was giving my son a bath and he had his bath bucket, and when was trying to pour water over his head he missed and got me drenched. He started to laugh and I took a picture of him. And I took a picture of me. I sent the first one of him laughing and said "he is laughing because...." and then I sent the one with my clothes all wet and said "he missed and got me." She sent a text back saying "ok."

Well I don't know what to make out of it. All I know is I miss them both and I think she is missing us too now.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09