My H said he wants a D, I'm devastated!

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Chel
The WASA/MLCER definitely wants to be friends at least in the beginning
to ease the guilt
Later in the crises after D and when they crash, they are nastier
at the beginning they think it will all be great..leaving and starting new life with usually a very sick, needy OW
rarelt do they seem to pick enlightened partners to grow with
they decend to what appears like a living hell
at least mine did
friendly and cordial is probably all that is needed at this point since D is looming and H is leaving
Do whatever you can to focus on you eat, exercise, pray, rest
freinds will come
there is a whole new world out there and It takes time b/c many of us LOST ourselves in our M
othwer D women are usually looking to be a freind and do fun stuff together
I have had more fun this past year than I think in my whole M life
first take the time to care for yourself, couseling, and healing
and at the same time starting over
it will be OK
peace