Hey John.. well, I once lived with a man for 3 years, we bought a house together, he wanted to marry me.. but he was 'nutsy' as Kalni says, and when I finally extricated myself.. wow, he was defiently nothing to me. Literally, I wouldnt have spat on him if he was on fire. I finally realised what the hell was I doing with him in the first place?? All that, for nothing, when my (now) bf was there all along. So I think you can get a pretty strong reaction, once that penny drops, especially when you thnk about what you could lose. My bf too now says he doesnt want to see Helen ever again, ok, that was only 8 months, but same theory I guess.
I think it would matter to me, for vindication, you know? So he didnt sail off into the sunset with her and was happy, whether I went back to him or not. Maybe thats unfair, but I would prefer to feel vindicated!!
Anyway, yes, the real question, is, are you in or are you out?? xxx
