Well just thought Id post an update. Son and ex doing ok and I honestly hope that keeps up and improves. But what I have to say is the fact that I think things are getting really sticky over the fence for ex, number one he doesnt have a secure relationship and doesnt trust this woman as far as he can throw her, number 2 is the fact that they are totally without money now, ex as just lost his job again, she as been to see his old aunt and admitted that they have been lying to her with regards telling her the house where we lived was up to rent when in fact it never as it as been up for sale all along, so they have deceived and lied to his old aunt, they have a holiday booked and her parents are having to give them money to go with, and also she says he will be selling his car today as they cannot afford to run two big cars, and she also told aunt how they dont know what to do as they definately will not be able to pay two mortgages now. Deary deary me it looks like it is all catching up with him. But like I said in the beginning he will end up with nothing and nobody. I think it is time for me to sit here and watch the show that is innevitably going to happen and to be prepared to be his friend when it does happen. Auntie doesnt think it will be too much longer now, and she really hopes ex moves back in his bungalow and removes it from sale as he is going to lose the lot for this deceiving lying woman, money milker and all that, well thats all for now folks interesting as it is
Hey Mandy, Haven't seen you on here in ages. So happy to hear that your EX is starting to rebuild with your Son. That is a wonderful update. ((((hugs))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Hi Brandnewday, I missed you too replying to my posts, wondered where you got to. Yes it is brilliant that ex is rebuilding his relationship with his son, I only hope and pray that it continues, for sons sake not mine.
Mandy I Have been following this thread and was amazed to read that you x is now working on R with son b/c I have read some of your previous thread where x was totaolly a jerk
MY xh story is similar and I too unfortunately see xh losing it all as it takes a few years for it all to get them
anyway It is hopeful that your x is trying to work it our with son I am hoping too that my x will rebuild with our kids 14 , 8 peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Peacetoday, Yes I have to admit I follow your story as well, it is also interesting to find that it does take a few years for this mlc thing to start biting them in the but, we will have to wait and see, everyone who is in contact with my ex is on about the way they are struggling over there, but no one knows what the future holds they may through it and surprise everyone, but one thing is for sure he hasnt got very much left in his life as way of assets and money, he sure as partied the night away and now it is sounding like she is fed up of not being able to live the lifestyle she thought she had stolen, we will see
Hi Mandy! You sure prophesied correctly with this OW. You said they would be broke and then there would be trouble in the R. Thank goodness your son refused to play happy families with them.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Beingme, thanks for your reply, yes it is inevitable what is going to happen to ex it is a shame but I feel it is coming for him, I could be wrong and love could see him through and he could stick with her and vice versa, we will see.
well things are looking up, ex is coming to the parents evening at school tomorrow and he as even said he will pick us both up and take us, that is a big improvement as you will remember way back then when taking son anywhere, he used to pick son up and I would have to follow on the public transport. mmmmmmm????????
well we didnt go to the function at school as son said there was no need to go in the end, I am a bit disappointed in the relationship thing with son and dad, but I have to remind myself that at least they are in contact and it isnt going to go full blown as it was before, I just feel that ex is only seeing son now when he takes him to his rugby the phone calls texts and talking to son on msn as stopped. It must be hard from exs side of the fence as well, admittedly, as he is out of work again, facing losing the house we lived in because they cannot afford it any longer, facing losing his car or already as done, yes he is going through a lot again, although he is unaware that I know, just feeel like him and son have faded a bit again, and I really dont want that to happen, before they fell out all ex was doing was taking son to his rugby and no other contact, so I really hope it isnt going back to that, we will keep our fingers crossed and our heads high funny thing other day ex phoned me and was talking amicably about sons future, was on the phone half hour or so and all of a sudden and I mean sudden, he had to go, think hed been caught by wifey on the phone, and for the last two saturday nights he as either phoned or texted me late on, over something or nothing, wonder if he is hitting bottom at long last and is checking into base so to speak, whatever I move on and I let him see that, I will be his friend though when needed
