Funny thing is that when I don't say a word about it she seems to lose her motivation for doing these things. If I continue to keep mum, she ends up feeling guilty.
Suggestions? Thoughts? Am I missing something? (I've been known to miss things right in front of my own face)
That's your answer, I think. If you have had trouble letting things go in the past (I do this too) then do a 180 - don't say a word. The lack of reaction seems to change her behavior.
