Well just thought Id post an update. Son and ex doing ok and I honestly hope that keeps up and improves. But what I have to say is the fact that I think things are getting really sticky over the fence for ex, number one he doesnt have a secure relationship and doesnt trust this woman as far as he can throw her, number 2 is the fact that they are totally without money now, ex as just lost his job again, she as been to see his old aunt and admitted that they have been lying to her with regards telling her the house where we lived was up to rent when in fact it never as it as been up for sale all along, so they have deceived and lied to his old aunt, they have a holiday booked and her parents are having to give them money to go with, and also she says he will be selling his car today as they cannot afford to run two big cars, and she also told aunt how they dont know what to do as they definately will not be able to pay two mortgages now. Deary deary me it looks like it is all catching up with him. But like I said in the beginning he will end up with nothing and nobody. I think it is time for me to sit here and watch the show that is innevitably going to happen and to be prepared to be his friend when it does happen. Auntie doesnt think it will be too much longer now, and she really hopes ex moves back in his bungalow and removes it from sale as he is going to lose the lot for this deceiving lying woman, money milker and all that, well thats all for now folks interesting as it is