Funny how we all weigh each decision so heavily. Not being critical just an observation. I do the exact same thing. That was until two weeks ago when I went out an bought a new motorcycle. Just blew her mind cause it was a major 180. Didn't ask, didn't even mention it to her. Just road home on it one day. Best thing I've done in 16 years!

So if I'm reading you correctly the holding pattern is of her making. Presumably so she can make a S/D financially viable? IMHO buy the bed. Make sure its the best you can afford. Don't compromise on quality if that's what you normally do.

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B 5/08
S 1/09