Thank you Wifey for your kind words. Sometimes the 2x4s are gentle (at least yours are)...
I was told last night that I allowed him to take everything from me when he bailed...He took my self-respect, my self-esteem, I am not the person I used to be and I am an idiot for even wanting him to ever darken my door again... Comments like that really make me second guess every decision I make.
Going back into the cave again
People say those things because they don't want to see you hurt. It is hard to hear those things, but you have to remember that the two people in a relationship actually know everything about the relationship. You are not an idiot.
Rhetorical question; what kind of person is mad that he took your self esteem yet can call you an idiot with a straight face?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
