I am really sorry to hear that your MC did not better that it did. I was really hoping it would. I agree with others on her that you should stick to what is working for you. If any couple who goes to an MC ask that C straight out if 'he/she can help fix the M', I think all MC's are going to say they can. It's their job to try and fix it, but if it breaks down still, the MC doesn't lose anything by just listening and giving advice.
Heck, girl, you have gotten better advice on here already than just setting goals. I truelly hope the best for you. I have no real good advice right now. My sitch is still in the same area that it has always been except H does not seem to be cheating but angrier about things. (I will update my sitch soon with all my crap from the last few days soon)
I would agree with bridgestone, get the bag ready in case you ever need it. MINE is still packed. I change things as the seasons change and my kids' needs change, but I still got it ready.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
