GIMA - I wonder if there is an interesting cause/effect relationship going on between your empty love tank and your W's change in attitude? The timing could be just a coincidence, but it seems like when you started to let go and not care about her as much she begins to warm up?

It is the textbook occurance that we hear about all the time if that is what is happening. I would be willing to bet that your change in 'feelings' towards your W and her attitude are interrelated??

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline