I ordered one too and am waiting for it to come in myself. Well my sitch has not changed at all since the other night. I have been doing stuff for myself and going out with friends. I know no matter what I do it will get twisted negatively against me in her eyes but oh well that is her prob. I am not doing anything wrong.
Jman,
I have the same problem with my W.
One of the reasons why you, I and the other LBHs need to make changes for ourselves first is because right now we can't do anything right in the eyes of our Ws. It's maddening, for sure. I think you are doing the right thing by ignoring her negativity.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________