I am in IC, he says he will definitely get IC but "hasn't had time to make an appointment" (I even gave him a list of providers covered by insurance and he's had 2 weeks). He thought we should be together and get MC, but my belief is that we need IC first- I need to see some positive changes in him first AND I need to rebuild my ability to assert myself before we can work on the R together. He asserted that he could not longer sustain a long-distance relationship with me- it was sort of all or nothing for him, and since I wouldn't let him move back immediately, he decided to move on w/out even trying to keep me in his heart. That hurts.
