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[RedSoxFan]

It's not harsh. It's true. Stop thinking about what she is doing. There were plenty of times I let my H think I was out with the girls and in reality, I was exactly where I wanted to be: At home, alone with a great book or movie or girlfriends came to my place. He got it in his own head I was "out". Not true and honestly, I did nothing to make him think otherwise. As a matter of fact I would drop off S and look smoking hot, like I was going out.

I'm referring to this comment:

Stop coming up with situations that don't impact you.

All of this stuff effects me. This is someone I love. Someone I'm still married to. I'm not sure what principals, are guiding us, etc. When I look at the sitches of others its not clear. I think I'm struggling with that.